Tuesday, 3 August 2010

My Dad's Enforced Silence

My Dad is an expressive person. He talks a lot, and sings a lot, and when he’s not talking or singing he’s happy just to scat or make noises. On the way home from the football once, I had to ask him to please be quiet - He was bored, and consequently had been blowing raspberries intermittently for about 20 minutes, on a busy train. He is an expressive person.

Adolf Hitler and my Dad both developed a growth on their vocal chords which had to be removed. In around 1940 in the case of Adolf Hitler, about 2 months ago in the case of my Dad.

So last week he went into hospital to have his one taken out (a procedure which happily passed without incident) and before I knew it he was conscious again and sending me texts.

“No cups of tea for 24 hours, and no talking for 48!”

I can only imagine how daunted he must have felt at the prospect, and how delighted my stepmother was.

The following day, he decided to go out for a walk to get some exercise. Realising that this would expose him to other people, who would expect the usual enthusiastic chatter and might not know about this imposed rule of silence, he prepared a note of explanation:

“Sorry, I can’t talk. I’ve had surgery on my vocal chords, and I don’t like you anyway”.

I love my Dad.


  1. Hehe. I picture him with a little board strung round his neck.

  2. I don't know him - but I think I love your Dad too!

  3. Oh my gosh! Love your dad's note! :) I'm a chatter box too. My kids hate it.

  4. This was a small piece of magnificence. Loved it.

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  6. That was really great! :D
    Got here by Mr. London Street, by the way.
    Glad I did.

  7. Ha! What a great character your Dad is, and what a nice piece of writing. I arrived here via MrLS.

  8. Ha ha, how many people would love to present a note like that without having had the surgery....

  9. This is so funny! :)
    Here from MLS... glad to be here too

  10. He sounds wonderful. Hope he is back talking now, its infuriating not being able to do so when you are a talker